I found this article today while perusing parenting websites. I think it's something we all think about from time to time. The headline, "3 mistakes woman make in the bedroom," caught my attention immediately. I thought for sure that one of the mistakes would be child focused, but no, they had something to say about my jammies- my favourite article of clothing. I thought I looked rather cute and sometimes even sexy; I'm one of those people who put my PJ's on as soon as I get home (could I be wrong?) As a new Mom, I know it's important to make the extra effort. I might have to do a PJ cull and check the storage room for the suggested items. *wink*
Mistake #1: Comfy Clothes
I know, ladies, that you want to be in those those comfortable nightgowns, those comfortable jammies, that you wear. But, honestly, the quickest turn-off to your partner or spouse are your comfy clothes. So, if you want to spice things up in your love life, shed those comfy clothes and find a nice, hot bra or a nice nighty, something you can be slinky, sexy and comfortable in that will be a TURN-ON to your partner.
Mistake #2: NOT Taking the Lead
Don't wait to get asked to dance, meaning you've got to take the lead. You don't have to wait for your partner to ask you to have sex or make love with them. Get involved, get into bed, take the lead and get your partner into bed with you. You'll both have a lot of fun and enjoy yourselves.
Mistake #3: Criticism
It's to be avoided at all costs. Nothing will turn off your partner faster than you telling him what you DON'T like and what you don't want taking place. On the other hand, what will be a complete arousal and turn-on is letting him know what he CAN do to please you and what will excite you if he does it.
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